This was my response to my rejection letter. I honestly don't know if it will do any good, but the way I figure, at least I didn't just slink off into the shadows with my tail between my legs like an impotent dog. So, without further ado....
Rachel,
Thanks for your response. However, I would really like to know what criteria you based your decision on. After all, I did apply within the first week of registration opening.
I'm usually one to pick my battles, but I have to admit that I was troubled with Rabbi Cantor's line of questioning regarding the prescription drugs I take and the reasoning behind why I take them. I suffer from a minor case of OCD and as far as physical “disabilities” go, I walk slightly slower due to an illness I had as a child.
At one point, he asked me "so, are you going to see a psychologist for that?" A few moments later, he asked "how are you when it comes to hiking?” Despite my uneasiness answering such personal questions, I answered both of them honestly and politely. I do not see a psychologist for my OCD as it is a non-issue and I would be fine on hikes.
Not to mention the fact that he called me an hour earlier than when our appointment was scheduled, which left me feeling very uncomfortable as I had to walk away from my job to answer his questions. Apparently, there was a miscommunication regarding the time in that he was calling at 1:15 his time rather than my time; the latter time being one in which I had a half-hour break where I could talk.
Now, this is the last time I can participate in one of these trips as I turn 27 in March and I would hate to be excluded based on the fact that Rabbi Cantor thinks that I'm some sort of liability. I've worked very hard in overcoming the obstacles that have been placed in front of me over the course of my life.
Please get back to me regarding the reasons for this decision.
Thank you.
Regards,
Hal
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We shall see....
2 comments:
I think it's good that you wrote this letter. Hopefully it will change your status, but even if it doesn't, at least someone knows how insensitive this fellow is.
-J
I am so proud of you-illegitimae
non carborundorum(sp?)
"Don't let the bastards grind you down"
In spite of your legs,you stand stronger and taller, than anyone around you-
but then, I am a wee bit biased!
love you ; )
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